When fears come to mind, we usually dismiss them automatically. But of course, its effectiveness is counterbalanced by the fact that it is laborious and cumbersome, so just a shortcut that will lead to the same goal. Or not? Although we are not too aware of this, many of us have a propensity to deny us the best chance boycott and our dreams, plans or thoughts. Several factors can determine to what degree such a thing happens and it would be too extensive to treat here. Our own circumstances are the bottleneck that determines to what extent we are able to clearly distinguish which is the best option. But whatever the reason that we stop doing what corresponds to each situation, hides a reality that always eludes: fear, the real key to our behavior. So, fear is the tool that derails our intentions and that makes us err in choosing the right choice.
And not only is the bad use we make of it, also is the instrument used by others towards us, which happens from all instances. I have seen the fear in a case that I know too well: sexual abuse in childhood. This fear paralyzes us in childhood and adulthood crept up to expand and control our existence. It may seem that I opted for a somewhat extreme example, but in reality the performance is always the same, terrible regardless of the circumstances in which it operates fear. When the destination is no longer in your hands excuses are making all sorts of arguments for not doing what needs to be done.